The dynamics of different relationships are complicated. have you ever just looked at 2 people who are friends or 2 people who are dating and go "why?" there are just so completely ill suited you can't imagine why they would hang out together for any period of time.
and then sometimes the benefits of the relationship are obvious. someone has money someone doesn't have money, someone is need of attention and the other is willing to dole it out without expecting much in return.
it's funny because sometimes you can see the people around you so clearly and not the things you're involved in. you can be imersed in somehing so obvious to everyone around you and yet when they point out what it's all about you deny it. because you just can't see it yourself because you're too damn close to it.
this next month or so may be very rocky and we'll see how the lines are drawn when the dust clears.... then again maybe I'm just in one of those doom and gloom moods....... I wonder if we have any chocolate in the house. hmmmmm.